Sunday, August 17, 2014

Summer Vacation 2014

Since before school got out, Jeff and I were talking about a vacation and getting away for some relaxation.  Booking a vacation is stressful for me.  I looked at Cruises, Disney, Beaches, Great Wolf Lodges and other Adventure Parks.  Each time I’d begin to look, I’d get so overwhelmed with all the options and hotel choices and cruise ships…. I needed a travel planner! Weeks went by and we did nothing!  I knew I was about to resign from my job so there was also a bit of hesitation on booking something.  Well, we waited so long that I looked at the calendar one day and realized we only had 2 weeks left to do something because of volleyball camps and tryouts.  Everyone always raves about Destin and it’s a relatively short drive so I found a reasonable hotel and booked it.  I would have preferred a condo but since it was such a short notice, the condos were quite pricey. 

We left at 4 am on a Wednesday and drove to Destin.  It was only about a 9 hour drive; the kids slept off and on and watched movies the rest of the time.  It’s not a very pleasant drive, kind of boring actually.  We were able to check into our hotel early so we did that and then headed straight get something to eat.  We went to a place called Harbor Docks that was referred to us by the hotel staff.  The service at first was not good, we didn’t get waited on for 10-15 minute and they were NOT busy. I was thinking we should just up and leave but we stuck it out and were all so glad we did.  The restaurant was on the water so while we waited, Jeff took Taryn down to the boardwalk and watched fishermen cut some massive tuna, red snapper and other fish.  She thought that was pretty cool.  Once our drinks came, service was great for the remainder of the meal and the food was delicious.  IT was too early in the day to not do something fun or relaxing so we headed to the beach.  Everyone was right, the sand and water in Destin is amazing!  I wish now that I would have bottled some of the sand up just because it was that soft and pretty!  Soft like baby powder! Jeff and the kids all buried each other and then had to break out of the sand. Jayden and Jeff threw the Frisbee while Taryn and Kiarra built castles.  After enjoying the beach for a few hours, we headed back to the hotel to clean up for dinner.  We couldn’t decide what we wanted and we were not super hungry so we landed on pizza.  We found this great place called Merlins Pizza just down the street; actually everything is “down the street”.  We arrived and it wasn’t busy so we found a booth, ordered and they said it would be 75-90 minutes… WHAT!!  We had a choice, we can wait the 90 minutes or we can leave and try to find something else and wait an hour at any other place… so we decided to wait it out. By the time the pizza came out, we were all quite hungry and it was YUMMO!  Not as great as Flippers Pizza in Orlando but pretty close.  Once we ate, we were all exhausted so called it a night.





 
Taryn driving the boat!!
Thursday was the only day we had real plans.  For the most part I wanted to wing each day (yes, I said it – Mrs. “I plan every minute of every day” said I wanted to wing each day!!) but this day was planned.  We got up and had breakfast in the hotel and all got ready to go to the boardwalk. We planned to spend the entire day there because we had a dolphin watching excursion planned for 7 pm that we knew we had to check in at 5 pm.  On our way there, roughly 10:00 am, it started pouring.  POURING!!!  Ok then, change of plans.  We decided to do a little souvenir shopping instead.  Each of the kids got a really cool t-shirt made and we picked up some things for the family and co-workers.  We were in the store for almost 2 hours.  By the time we left, the rain had stopped and everything had dried up.  We headed back to the boardwalk when we faced yet another setback.  This setback sent up to the pharmacy and back to the hotel.  2 of us stayed at the hotel while Jeff and 2 of the kids went to get us lunch.  He picked up some shrimp po’ boys and they were pretty good.  Our kids had never had a po’ boy before… can you believe that!?!?  Taryn was the only one that didn’t get one, she got pasta instead.  Finally around 2:00, we were able to go to the boardwalk for real!  Parking was nightmare but other than that the boardwalk was a great time.  Kiarra and Jayden zip lined and Taryn climbed a huge rock wall.  Jeff, Kiarra and Jayden did this freaky 4D zombie shooting thing while Taryn and I watched them on a screen.  It was finally time for our boating excursion to go see some dolphins.  Some friends of ours were in Destin at the same time we were there so we met up with them and they were able to book the same excursion.  We did get to see some dolphins and a beautiful sunset.  Every Thursday in Destin, they have fireworks off of a barge in the water so we booked this excursion so we would be on the water for the firework show.  While waiting for it to get dark enough for it to start, we were getting bored and decided to play the game Heads Up.  It didn’t take long before every kid and half of the adults on the boat were playing the game with us.  It’s such a fun game!!  Finally, the fireworks started.  I love fireworks.  There is something so beautiful and magical about them.  It was so nice being on the water with family and friends during that moment.  Once it finished, our excursion was over and we were pulling back up to the boardwalk.  We’d had such a late lunch that we didn’t eat before getting on the boat so now that it’s 9:30, we are all starving!  We left to find something to eat.  Most restaurants close at 10:00 so I got online to find something open until 11.  The only one I could find was Bubba Gump Shrimp.  When on vacation, I hate eating at places that I can eat at any day of the week while home but we didn’t have much of a choice.  We got to Bubba Gumps a little before 10 and gave our name to be put on the list.  The staff was kind of rude but it was late and I didn’t think much of it.  We didn’t have to wait long and they called us to seat us.  One girl had a major attitude so Jeff asked if something was wrong or something like that.  She said “we close at 10 – or are supposed to close at 10”.  I about snapped.  I was quick to say, “Your website says 11:00!”  She said “yea, that’s wrong, we close at 10”.  I was willing to leave, I didn’t want the chefs spitting in my food for coming into the restaurant so late. I was outta there, but they insisted that we stay and that it wasn’t a problem.  Food was mediocre; dessert was disgusting (they forgot to put the fancy sauces on the bread pudding).  I just wanted to get out of there.  We were the last ones there and it just didn’t feel right.
Taryn with her cute face paint.
Bubba Gump Restaurant
Taryn climbing the rock wall
Friday was the day I was really looking forward to.  The beach – ALL DAY!  The weather was beautiful.  We wanted to go to a different beach than the one we went to on Wednesday but that didn’t work out so well for us.  All the beaches by the condos are private beaches for people staying in the condos we went back to the place we’d already been.  It was just as gorgeous on Friday as it was 2 days prior. We set up our canopy and Taryn went straight to making sand castles.  I sat in the sun and soaked up as much as I could.  It wasn’t long before it got a little hot and Taryn was begging me to get in the water with her.  I refuse to get in the water in Galveston but this water was blue-ish and I could see my feet even being in the water that was to my waist.  The waves were strong and knocked us down but it was a lot of fun.  I sat with her for hours and played in the sand (yes, I know, for once I actually got my hands in the sand).  I literally could of stayed there for 5 more hours but we didn’t plan the day very well and didn’t take our normal “beach food” so everyone was hungry.  Since we skipped lunch we decided to have an early dinner.  We cleaned up and decided to go to Old Bay Steamers in Fort Walton Beach.  It was only 12 miles from our hotel so we thought it would be a quick trip.  We left the hotel at 5:15 and called ahead to see if there was a wait.  They said to come on in because they had not wait.  Sweet!  As we pulled out of the hotel we realized we would not be getting there anytime soon.  Traffic was horrible.  It took us an hour and 15 minutes to travel 12 miles!  I thought Houston traffic was bad… Houston traffic has NOTHING on the traffic in Destin.  By the time we go there, there was an hour wait for the 5 of us.  Ugh, we’d already skipped lunch and the kids had been saying for hours now that they were hungry (right before leaving the beach, during our cleanup/shower time at the hotel and the drive to the restaurant).  We were able to order drinks and appetizers from the bar which I’m glad we did.  They had great appetizers.  The wait wasn’t so bad either.  We were seated and ordered our food. If you are ever in Destin or Fort Walton beach and don’t mind spending a little money on a nice dinner, you HAVE to go to this place.  Our food was so good.  Some of the best seafood I’ve ever had.  They steam or grill everything, nothing is fried.  I had lobster tail, shrimp skewers with rice and veggies.  Soo sooo sooo good!  We all really loved our food.

Old Bay Steamers - Lobster Tail and Shrimp

Old Bay Steamers - Pineapple Shrimp

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Saturday we packed up to head to New Orleans to spend the evening with Jeffs parents.  Before leaving we went to the place next to us where the kids could ride go carts.  They had a blast.  We probably could of stayed there all day doing that.  Then we headed to the outlets to do a little shopping.  Talk about disappointing.  I was ready to spend some money and get the kids school clothes knocked out…..  Or not!  I bought 3 things.  A pair of shorts and a tank top for Taryn and lunch!  That is it.  The shops were terrible.  I couldn’t even find thing that we liked that were overpriced where I had to disappoint the kids and say no.  They just didn’t have anything we liked.  Guess I shouldn’t complain, saved us some money J.  From there we headed to New Orleans.  On the way, we went through Pensacola which is where Jeff was born and lived until he was 8 years old or so.  We even drove by the house he grew up in.  It was our luck to hit traffic in 4 places on our way to his parents’ house so we arrived much later than anticipated (guess I should of planned each of these days better and we wouldn’t of had all these mishaps).  Thankfully, Shirley had dinner prepared for us so we didn’t have worry about that.  We visited with them and got up the next morning and headed home.

Although it wasn’t a super fancy vacation, I am so grateful to be able to spend a few days relaxing and spending quality time with my family.  The day before vacation is when I’d given my notice at work so that was a huge weight off my shoulders so I was able to relax and enjoy.  I’m also very glad we didn’t stay longer that we did.  Destin is not as big as I thought.  I was expecting this huge island and night life and a million things to do.  It’s definitely not that, but it was perfect for us.

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Leap of Faith



God is so great!  Today, I got out of bed knowing it was going to be my last day at BP.  It wasn’t the easiest decision to leave but it was absolutely necessary.  The situation with my job continued to spiral downward so Jeff and I began to discuss taking a leap of faith. I began to pray, or beg God to be honest, specifically about opportunities outside of BP.  After 9 years, I was quite comfortable there however with the hiring freeze, I knew there wouldn’t be opportunities for me anytime soon.  During this time, there were many nights I would come home crying or fall asleep crying simply because everything we all worked for was being taken from us and everything we poured our hearts into was being forced to conform into a process that doesn’t work.  We had 9 coordinators leave since our transition to this new group just 6 months ago and this group refused to back fill their positions so the work just continued to pile on the remaining team members.  I was being forced to do 2-3 peoples full time jobs in 40 hours a week with no mistakes and everything done in a timely fashion.   This is seriously impossible.  During this same time, Kiarra put in a prayer request for me at church. 

Within days of that prayer request, I received 3 calls about opportunities, 1 with BP and 2 with other companies. I was so overwhelming, in a good way.  One of them was from a lady I worked with 10+ years ago at Waste Management.  The following week I interviewed for that position, later in the week I received an email from them to do a back ground check and personality tests and then the following week they offered me the position. This, my friends, is what I call God Speed!  I couldn’t wait to give my 2 week notice!!  I thought about waiting until we got back from Destin but I knew that would prolong my time to be stuck with those crazies so I went ahead and gave my notice that day, 2 weeks ago today. Although I was excited to give my notice, it wasn’t necessarily easy.  I look around and see people that I’ve worked with for 9 years, people I hired, people I remember getting married and having their first child.  These people I consider my friends, my family.  There were many weeks that I spent more time with them than with my own family so although I was eager to get out of the situation I was in, it wasn’t the easiest decision.  Knowing all the other coordinators are super busy and don’t have the capacity to now take on my work load, it hurt my heart a bit knowing they will have to take on all my responsibilities.  At some point, I have to walk away and say “it’s no longer my problem”, I’m not there yet…

After taking a few weeks off, I’ll begin my new job as a Learning Systems Specialist with an offshore drilling company.  I will continue to be in a Learning Organization but will be working on the systems side of it rather than the logistics and coordinating side.  I will be traveling internationally a great deal which I’m quite excited about as well.  I’ve been working contract for the past 3 years and although it has its advantages, I have to say that I’m super excited to have paid holidays, vacation days and be a salaried employee again.  Some of the additional perks of this job are just amazing, almost too good to be true.  I’m very excited for this new journey.

It’s really amazing to see how one prayer request can come full circle.  From the day Kiarra wrote that request to the day I was offered the job was only 32 days.  I’ll say it again, God Speed.  When you pray and He says move, you better be ready to act upon it.



And yes, Aunt Loretta – I will still be home for Christmas!  I have pre-approved days off.