We've been on a crazy ride...

Summer flew by!!  Seriously, before I knew it - it was school registrations, volleyball tryouts, back to school shopping and dreaded thought of homework!!!  I thought about writing every week but was so consumed with the amount of activities we had going on. The kids enjoyed their summer, it was just busy.

Jayden attended a couple of basketball camps, Great Adventure Camp (Christian camp), time at the lake with friends and he got the responsibility of babysitting Taryn while Kiarra was away at her activities.  Jayden turned 12 in June and we threw him a surprise b-day party.  We got him - AGAIN!  He really enjoyed that time with friends and family and want’s another “surprise” next year…. Not really a surprise if he’s already planning or thinking he’ll be surprised but we’ll see… I just may come up with something good (suggestions welcome J).

Kiarra attempted SACC (Strength and Conditioning Camp) but tore the ligaments around her ankle on day 1, so that didn't work out so well for her.  She still continued to attend most days and just did upper body workouts (boring!!)  The trainers thought it was a sprain at first so had her take it easy for 2 weeks, when they realized it wasn't getting better they had me take her to the doctor. She was in a boot for 3 weeks and got it off just tin time to attend volleyball camp. Just a week or so after camp was tryouts and this was quite stressful because of our house situation (you can read about that below), not to mention Jeff had been out of town as well (you can read about that below as well).

Taryn, oh poor Taryn… she was SOOOO bored all summer.  Kiarra and Jayden were awesome babysitters and she enjoyed them taking care of her but with Kiarra in a boot, she couldn't take Taryn to the pool and Jayden isn't old enough to take Taryn by himself.  She’s the only one that didn't have a bunch of activities so we filled up the time with sleepovers, and activities at the house.

Jeff was out of town working in Austin the entire month of August. With all the activities going on, working full time and now living out of zone for one of our kids schools, this made things quite difficult.  We drove up to Austin twice to see him. He was working 6 days a week which left no time for him to come home on the weekends so it was nice little get-a-way for us to drive up and spend time with him at the hotel.  We didn't do much while we were there; a little shopping, went and saw the State Capitol but the best part was sightseeing.  Austin is beautiful… gorgeous actually!!  We also took Jayden to see the UT campus and football field but he could care less about them since he wants to go to A&M. He was not impressed and made that very clear.  He cracks me up!  I don’t think he’ll go to A&M anyway, but that’s what he thinks at this stage in his life so we’ll just encourage it.  Before Jeff even got home from Austin, they were already talking about sending him to another city.  His boss wouldn't let him go but their Director wanted him to go to Dallas.  He wasn't even home a week and he was told he needed to go to Dallas…. Here we go again, I’m getting quite good at this single mom thing, but it’s NOT something I want to do on a full time basis (or even more than a week at a time for that matter).

Rewind a few months

I’d made it quite clear to everyone that I was not happy with the house we purchased last year.  In April I started snooping on HAR to look for another house. The market was great and we had friends selling their homes within days (sometimes hours) of putting it on the market.  We looked in a few neighborhoods to build, in our neighborhood for another house (because after all I LOVE the neighborhood, just not the house) and even looked in other cities… YES, other cities.  I do love Katy but would also welcome any opportunity to relocate.  In May we found a neighborhood just a couple of miles from our home in Firethorne, I loved it….the kids loved it but Jeff was still very adamant about staying put for a few more years.  I asked him to pray about it and he still insisted that we needed to stay in this house.  Finally, one day I begged him (ok-ok, I didn't’t beg - I only asked once) to go with me to look at a house.   He saw how happy this house made me and suddenly he heard from the Lord that maybe we should consider moving.  YES, thank you LORD for speaking to my hubby!!  The only downside was that Kiarra would have to go to the new High School and not Katy High School where we always thought she would go. I mentioned to Kiarra that the house we like in the new neighborhood is zoned to the new school and she was so excited. She expressed how she would love to go to the new school because so many of her new friends will be going there… AMEN!  This is huge.  I reached out to an old colleague of mine who is a Realtor now and we put the house on the market.  We had showings immediately, quite a lot of them actually. As you know, selling a house is stressful - always keeping it 110% picked up and clean is no easy task when there are 3 kids home all day long and the oldest-most responsible one in a boot!  We went to the new neighborhood and signed paperwork to being the process of building a new house… Let’s hope 3rd times a charm. This is the 3rd house Jeff and I have built together so as long as we can keep our sanity through this process, I think we will be in this house a very long time.

Sale/No Sale

We received an offer on the house and although it wasn't a full price offer, it was decent.  We went into contract but before the 10 day option period was up the buyers backed out.   It was devastating.  It’s now August and decision time, do we keep the house on the market or take it off and just remodel.  With school starting and volleyball tryouts weeks prior to school starting, we needed to make a decision, however Jeff is out of town, I’m working 60+ hours a week and time is just flying by. The biggest hurdle is keeping our house on the market and still allowing Kiarra to go to the new school.  This means she is out of zone and will need transportation to/from school each day.  Getting her to school in the morning isn't a problem because we are headed to work but neither of us can leave work at 2:30 every day to pick her up.  It was weighing very heavy on my heart. I simply didn't know what to do.  I’d pray about it but wasn't getting the answer because honestly, the answer I wanted was to just sell the house and move into temporary housing until the new house is ready, oh yea - about the new house, they've barely started building it at this point… I think we only had the slab!!  Of course I wasn't in a rush for it to be built because we hadn't sold the house anyway but it was still another burden in my mind.  Jeff and I finally made a decision to take the house off the market and stay put, we’d remodel, put in a pool and just be content with this decision…a decision we thought was coming from our good Lord. 

Answered Prayers…

I text a dear friend of mine, who also has a daughter going to this new school, and explained to her that the buyers had backed out and that we wouldn't be able to get Kiarra into the new school because although they would allow it, I just couldn't get her home from school every day.  Her response to me blew me away, it made me cry and I fell to my knees.  She told me she would be happy to take Kiarra home from school each day until we move.  Friends, this is HUGE.  We don’t live far from each other but this is a big deal to me and to Kiarra.  I just didn't feel right accepting this offer but she insisted.  What a blessing she is to our family.

Enrollment

So now that we had transportation sorted out, there was no time to wait.  We literally had to get Kiarra enrolled within a couple of days so she could attend volleyball tryouts. I thought school sports didn't start until school started, boy was I wrong (OMG, I think I just sounded like my Mother).  I’d been talking with the school for months so I knew everything I needed to do, the registrar went over it with me many times.  Kiarra and I walked into that HUGE, seriously GINORMOUS school to register her and I hadn't followed the right steps. I thought we were “pre-registering” her but what I actually needed to do weeks ago was go to the Administration building, and pay a fee and apply for her pre-registration…or something like that, I don’t even remember. Seriously, it was all so stressful. Just when you think you have everything you need, birth certificates, contracts for new build, physicals, etc…. not to mention Jeff had just left to go out of town.  Then, once the board or whoever approved it I could officially register her.  I remember this very clearly, it was a Wednesday and tryouts started the following week.  Eeeek!  They said it can take up to 10 days to receive the approval… TEN DAYS!!!  As much as I’m trying to stay calm and collective, this panic came over me and I got very frustrated.  It had already been so emotional from the moment we put our house on the market I just thought maybe this was Gods way of telling me that we just need to stay put. Then out of nowhere, a very nice lady at the administration building approached me promised to help us and see this through. She was another blessing.  Before noon on Friday, we had the approval.  AMEN!!  I was working that Friday but as soon as I got the email, I was off to the school to get her registered. We arrive to the school and there is not a person in site. It’s practically empty, only a few construction workers finishing up some last minute touches.  What am I going to do now? She can’t attend tryouts on Monday if she’s not registered…  We waited around a few minutes thinking maybe everyone was out to lunch. Just as we started to walk back to the car, I see someone in the office.  I knocked on the door and it just happened to be one of the principles.  He opened the door and explained that no one in the office works on Fridays during the summer… WHAT!!??  I felt my heart drop again and Kiarra instantly had tears in her eyes.  I explained to him that with tryouts being on Monday, I really need to get her enrolled and I asked what time they will be there on Monday so I can come back to enroll her.  He was so nice and said “I think the registrar is here, let me see if I can find her”… Seriously friends, one blessing after another!  The registrar was there and although she wasn't super happy to help us, she took the paperwork, reviewed it to ensure we had every I dotted and every T crossed and then said that she’d finalize everything on Monday but that Kiarra could go to volleyball tryouts on Monday. We both shed tears of joy on the way to the car. AMEN!

Volleyball/Back to School

After all that craziness with getting Kiarra enrolled in school, she was able to try out for volleyball and she made the Freshman A team.  All in all they had a pretty good season.  There were too many girls on the team and the coach liked the “fun/fair/positive” crap but other than that they did well and Kiarra was able to play a lot.  I always thought football was the rough sport so when she suffered a concussion during an intense game against Katy I was quickly brought to reality and that every sport is kind of dangerous.  I always thought it would be a rolled ankle or jammed finger but a concussion…only my child J

The kids were excited to go back to school this year.  Kiarra in high school, Jayden in Jr High and Taryn in 1st grade. 3 kids in 3 different schools, working lots of hours, husband out of town, house on the market and volleyball games twice a week was all quite overwhelming but you know what, I wouldn't change it for the world.  This is my life and I love it.

Sale of House

We received other offers on our house and had many people interested in it but unfortunately our Realtor didn't do her part to see those through.  We lost one deal over a simple $250 neighborhood deed restriction rule book that she refused to let us pay for.  Seriously, $250?  Ugh!  After many prayers, discussions and considerations we decided to let her go.  So now what??  We have to sell this house by December 20th or Kiarra will have to transfer schools back to the school in our zone.  Again, after many discussions, prayer and tears, Jeff and I decided that at semester break, she’d just have to transfer to Katy High School.  End of discussion…. Or so we thought.  I was content with the decision and although I wasn't happy about it, I knew it was the right thing. I went to the sales associate at the new builder and explained to them that we needed to go ahead and cancel our contract. I hated to do it but there was just no other choice at this point.  I didn't even care if we lost our earnest money, we just needed out of the contract.  Here we go, another blessing… She was amazing. She explained to me that we just had a bad experience (a very bad one I might add) and not to give up yet.  She asked if we’d trust one of their preferred Realtors to re-list our house and was so positive and refreshing about the entire situation, something I was not used to because our other Realtor was not that way.  I couldn't even contain myself, I was so emotional. I was happy/nervous/stressed/anxious/overjoyed all at the same time. Mario called me later that day and we talked for a very long time about what we (Jeff and I) wanted and how we were going to tackle this.  See, we missed out on the prime time to sell our house over the summer and now school has started so I didn't have high expectations.  Our new Realtor came by and gave me a ton of tips to make the house look bigger/better.  Again, during this time, Jeff is STILL out of town (have I mentioned that enough in this post)… so the kids and I moved furniture around and sure enough, the house looked great.  I almost fell in love with it all over again, but shhh - don’t tell Jeff, he’d kill me.  LOL.  The house went back on the market in October and within a few weeks, we had an offer.  It wasn't the best and it wasn't our asking price but it was an offer and we were elated.  After a little negotiating, we signed the contract, inspections were schedule and we started packing.  I’d had my eyes on a few lease houses over the months but of course those were long gone.

Now where are we going to live??

Closing was scheduled to be within a month so now we needed to find a place to live. There were only 2 lease houses in the zone we needed and those were not going to work for us so I went to the only apartment complex that is zoned to the High School and Jr High (so the kids can ride the bus).  I've not lived in an apartment for 15 years.  My oh my, these apartments seem so small!  Closing is scheduled for the day before Thanksgiving and we are just praying all goes well and we can finally be done with this house…

SUMMER SUMMER SUMMERTIME….

Whew, another school year in the books!  What a milestone year we've had in the Dailey house.  Taryn just finished up Kindergarten, Jayden finished 5th and Kiarra finished 8th so now we transition Kiarra to high school, Jayden to middle school and sweet pea will be a big 1st grader!  

3 kids in 3 different schools - YIKES!!

With his certificate... woo-hooo, onto Jr. High

Jayden had an amazing fifth grade year.  He was awarded with the Presidential Award at the end of the year and that’s something we are very proud of.  This basically means he had a great GPA all year, tested great on his STAAR tests (actually only missed one question on the math test), had a recommendation letter from 2 of his teachers and was considered an outstanding student for his behavior and attitude. I received many praise emails for Jayden throughout the year.  The compliments from teachers, front office staff, the principal and many others bring pure joy to my heart. I thank God often for my only son.  He is really excited about Jr. High and I’m excited to see him excel.

Miss Bailey, his homeroom teacher.

Mr. and Mrs. Wolman

Taryn had a great year too.  She absolutely loves school and cried the last few days knowing it was coming to an end. Her teacher was fabulous, seriously amazing…especially for a first time teacher (which I didn't know until the last week of school).  I was (and still am) often called Miss Martinez at home. Taryn catches herself quickly now and realizes before she fully says the name but I don’t mind. I’m honored to be called that name because she’s taken such great care of my baby girl these past 9 months.  Taryn finished up school reading at a level G (only need to be level C to pass), she knew every site word, sound, vowel, letter, etc. that she was tested on and that appears on her report card.  She is more than ready for first grade and if it was up to her, she’d start tomorrow!

Miss Martinez

Mr. and Mrs. Wolman

Kiarra has had a great year as well.  I previously expressed my apprehension for her going to a new school her 8th grade year, but I’ll say it again… she took it on with great courage and I’m so proud of her for stepping into this unfamiliar space at this age.  WoodCreek Jr. High has been a really great experience for all of us and I’m actually very glad we made the move when we did.  God timed it all perfectly for us and I’m so thankful. The 8th grade dance was here before we knew it and she looked so beautiful in her dress with her long straight hair.  We don’t straighten it often but when we do, it’s absolutely gorgeous.  She had a really great time at dinner with a couple of her closest friend and said the dance was a lot of fun.  The morning after the dance she has an audition in which she received a call back.  Nothing major but she’ll be performing in front of some top agencies in August so she is starting to prepare for that now. The athletics dept. at WoodCreek Jr. High conducts a huge sports banquet each year (I mean huge) and I was so excited that Kiarra won an award.  Again, being new to this school I was shocked that she made the volleyball team, let alone the A Team and then she got an award to top it off.  The final event of Jr High was the pop show for choir where she had a small solo in the Beyoncé hit Single Ladies.  She did a great job!  Her last year of Jr High was very memorable and one I hope she cherishes for years to come.  We also celebrated her 14th b-day in May.  It was a BUSY month for Kiarra.  She had a handful of friend over for a sleepover and we may or may not have gone to HEB and acted a little crazy….

We finally heard from Tamia.  She reached out to Kiarra so we now know all is ok with her. She said she finished up the year with good grades and is happy that it’s summer.  We typically have her for 30 or more days in the summer so it’ll be interesting to see how this all plays out. She also mentioned that she moved again.  Not sure where to as her Mom hasn't told us anything about it and if we ask Tamia too many questions, she’ll get punished for answering them so it’s best we just keep quiet.

Logan receiving his diploma (or 1 of the many scholarships)

In May, we drove to Iowa for my nephew, Logan’s, high school graduation.  First of all, I shouldn't be old enough to have nephews/nieces in high school (or kids for that matter), let alone GRADUATING! I had tears; I’m not going to lie.  The graduation was quite interesting. I've not been to a small town graduation for years so it was very interesting to Jeff and I that they announce EVERY scholarship for EVERY person.  I am very proud of Logan for his scholarships.  Some we knew about and others we didn't so they were a great surprise.  I’m a proud auntie!!  Congratulation Logan!!  After the ceremony, we headed to my brother’s house for the celebration.  We got to catch up with family that we hadn't seen since Christmas and meet the newest member of the family Caeden (that I made cry - still sorry Brent and Kelly).  It was a really short trip so we didn't get see everyone.  We drove up on Thursday night/Friday and back on Sunday evening/Monday.  Since we were there on Mother’s Day, Teige (and family) and Talan came over to Grandpa’s house that Sunday and after lunch we hung out all day.  The weather was beautiful!  I really enjoyed that time; it was great to catch up with them. My nephew will be going to college in the fall to play football so I’m looking forward to this next chapter in his life.  I was really sad that I didn’t get to see my niecers Makenzie but she was away at an all weekend softball tournament.  Can’t believe she is officially a SENIOR now!  Maybe she’ll come to Texas to go to college…

My other little cutie patootie niece turned 1 and had a very colorful birthday party.  She looked crazy funny in her big ol fat tutu.  We already know she is going to be spoiled because she received a sports car that she was pushed around in by Taryn.  That girl is a hot mess; she is the cutest 1 year old on the planet.  Taryn absolutely adores her (as we all do) and loves that she gets to be a big cousin to her.

And this brings us to SUMMER!  Thank GOD we all survived another school year.  I plan to take off as much time as I can to spend with the kids because 2013-14 school year will be starting before we know it.

Another cute little pic of Taryn and my Grandpa.  She was begging him to come to lunch with us on Mother's Day...

15 Years and Counting

Jeff and I met 15 years ago today, almost at this very minute. We met through mutual friends (many of you know our story so I won’t bore you with the play by play) and it’s a night we’ll never forget. To sum it up, Jeff’s friend was coming to my apartment to see my friend and couldn’t come unless he brought a friend. I’d only lived in Houston a few months and couldn’t explain to them how to get to my apartment so I decided we’d meet up the street in a parking lot and they could follow us. Looking back, this is so scary…two young girls meeting up with 2 guys in a parking lot and I didn’t know either one of them! Anyway, I was driving my little white sunbird and I whipped into the parking lot and they were already there. Jeff was immediately mad with his friend saying things like “you know I don’t like white girls man”... We chatted for a few minutes in the parking lot and they followed us back to my place. Our friends went out on the balcony which left Jeff and I stuck in the living room to entertain each other. Oh wait, at this time I only knew him as JD. Nothing was on tv on a Wednesday night and I have no idea what to talk to this dude about. After a few shots (yes, I broke out the Jack Daniels) we loosened up and started talking about all the “first date” type of stuff, where we work, where we grew up, our interests…. One conversation led to another and we had a great evening getting to know each other. The following two nights we went out and the rest is history. That is a picture from the night we met.

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Kiarra just finished club volleyball for the season. She played very well this season and we are extremely proud of her. She will attend the National Junior Honor Society ceremony tomorrow evening. She would have been inducted last year had Katy Junior High been a little more organized and not used an address and phone number for us that was 3 years old. It still blows my mind that they could get report cards to us at the right address, and call our cell phones several times a week with messages from the principal that were totally irrelevant but when it came to something this important they somehow didn’t have our current information… Ugh! Anyway, I’m very happy with this school and that she is able to be inducted this year and knowing she was supposed to be last year makes me proud as well…just wish she could of gone through it with all her friends. She also has her 8th grade dance this Friday evening and an audition this weekend. It’s a VERY busy and exciting week for Kiarra.

Jayden should be getting his leg brace off this week. He has a sleeve fracture of the patella and as of last week it was healing nicely so the doctor thought he’d only have to wear the brace another week. He’s been pretty cooped up for the past 3 weeks or so. He’s also been sick several times over the past few weeks. He caught some kind of stomach bug that would come and go. He’d be real sick one day and fine for several days and then sick again. I think he’s on the mend now. Thank God!

We’ve been debating on putting Taryn in gymnastics. I've been told she has perfect form when doing cartwheels and round-offs. I’m so used to her doing these all over the house that I didn’t really notice how awesome they were until someone at a volleyball tournament pointed it out to me. They asked me how many years she’s been in gymnastics and were surprised when I said she’d never had formal lessons. She basically taught herself with only a little coaching from me.

We haven’t seen Tamia since January so we can only hope and pray she is doing ok.

My nephew is graduating high school in just a few weeks. I can NOT believe he is going off to college this fall. It just doesn’t seem right that they are all growing up so fast. We can’t wait to see him walk across the stage to get his diploma!  It will also be great to see all of my family again.

SURPRISE SURPRISE

I love the month of February.  Things are back to normal after the holidays, the kids are counting down to spring break, Kiarra and my Mom both have birthdays, volleyball and basketball are in full swing and it’s a few months closer to school releasing for the year (something I look more forward to than the kids).

This year my Mom was turning 60 so I wanted to do something special for her. I was plotting with my brothers to come down and surprise her and I was going to put a small party together for her.  She hates surprises (like mother like daughter) but since it would be her kids and grand-kids coming, it would have been worth it.  Teige and family had a lot going on with Logan being a Senior, wrestling at the state tournament, etc. so they didn't think they were going to be able to make it.  I was trying to plan anyway but thing just didn't work out as I hoped for. There was a massive snow storm coming their way and the weather was looking real ugly all through Iowa, Nebraska, Kansas and Oklahoma.  Talan, Mollie and Makenzie were still planning to come so I was planning out how we’d do the grandioso surprise.  Since they were going to be driving all night Friday night, I gave them directions to the school where Jayden would be playing in his basketball game on Saturday morning. Thursday came and Talan started asking me questions he normally wouldn't ask.  We don’t talk often so for him to ask me ‘so, what are you guys doing tonight?’ and ‘what time do you get off work tomorrow?’ was so very suspicious to me.  BUSTED!!  I knew they were already in Houston or close by.  See, I hate surprises too so my head is now spinning at the fact they can show up at my house at any moment. Holy smokes, we kicked into high gear trying to get laundry done, toys picked up, sheets changed, and to top it off, I hadn’t got groceries yet!!  I was planning to do all that on Friday since it was my day off and I quickly realized I had less than an hour to do it all.  YIKES… well, laundry and groceries waited until the next day but the kids and I managed to get the sheets changed, dishes done, floors swept, carpet vacuumed and Taryns toys picked up in time for their arrival… but now how are we going to surprise Mom. I know she is in Katy on Thursdays after work so I called her and pretended like I was really upset about something and asked her to come over so I could talk.  At this point, I know Talan is already within 30 minutes from our house and she could take anywhere from 20 - 40 minutes. My heart is racing, who is going to show up first.  Thankfully, Mom showed up first so I laid a sob story on her and told her I quit my job… I even had tears (I should probably be an actress J).  I actually laughed a few times at the ridiculousness of my story but pulled myself together so she wouldn't notice.  Ok…on to the surprise.  I left the garage open so they could just walk into the house.  Jeff had to leave to pick up Jayden from practice at the same time I got a text that they were outside.  P-E-R-F-E-C-T!  Jeff started to leave and in they walked.  Talan said “Happy Birthday” and Mom just stared at him, did a double take and jumped up.  Priceless!  Mom was pleasantly surprised and I quickly confessed that I didn't quit my job.  They were pretty exhausted from driving 14 hours, many of them through snow and ice and since I had no food we had to go out to eat.  What better than taking them to our favorite Mexican restaurant Chuys. We had a nice dinner and went our separate ways. Talan and Mollie stayed with Mom and Kenzie stayed at our house.

Mom was supposed to work on Friday but her boss let her take a last minute vacation day to spend time with them while they were here. Our kids only had a half day at school so it all worked out well.  Jeff and Talan went bowling Friday morning while Mollie did some homework.  Makenzie, Kiarra and I loaded up on groceries and made snacks, cake balls, dips and food for the weekend.  Once Mom, Talan and Mollie finally came over, I took them around town to show them where the kids go to school, where they will go to high school, the new humongous high school, etc.  The remainder of the day we decided to just chill out and go to Katy Mills mall for a little shopping. Although Makenzie already has her prom dress, it was fun to look at dresses and see what she might like for next year. After our little shopping escapade, I made dinner while the rest played cards.  Taryn whooped everyone in the polish poker games that evening!

Saturday, Jayden had 2 basketball games so they were able to see him in action.  He played really well and had several points.  After his games, they all went to Traders Village while Kiarra and I worked on her scrap book.  I grilled up a feast including wings, burgers, hot dogs, bacon wrapped shrimp, queso, mac & cheese, baked beans, grilled veggies, etc.  After eating, I suggested we play hide and seek in the dark.  Talan, Mollie and Makenzie hadn't played this before and they later told us that they didn't think it would be fun.  We proved them wrong.  We had lots of laughs, and memories that we will talk about for years.

Sunday, we all slept in and it felt great… well until I realized we missed church.  Oops! We went to Moms for lunch and then headed to the outlets in Fairfield.  We did a lot of shopping while they were here.  We wanted to go to Galveston but it was chilly and it would have been late by the time we would have got there.  Makenzie, Kiarra, Jeff and I went to our favorite Sushi restaurant for dinner while the others stayed at Moms and ordered pizza.  They were planning to leave at 1:00 am so we let them rest and headed home to get our kids to bed.

It was so great to see them and spend time with them.  Each time we go to Iowa, everyone is always busy so we are limited on the time we get to see them. It was great to have them for 3 days, all to ourselves…especially you MAKENZIE!!

Kiarra has had several volleyball tournaments this year.  She has improved greatly and gets a lot of play time.  Tournaments are so exciting… stressful but exciting.  My back always hurts for a day or so after we have one from the intensity of each game.  We only have 3 tournaments left before the big 3 day, Lone Star Classic in Dallas in April. She’s done well in school, kept her grades to all A’s and B’s which I’m happy with.  Her 8th grade dance is in April which she is really excited about. 

Jayden has had a basketball game each Saturday for the past 2 months and has done really well.  Last night he scored 12 of our 25 points. They have a play just for him called ‘FIRE’ where he is able to make a fast break and go for a layup.  Basketball is pretty exciting too.  They are really rough with each other considering they are only 5th graders. Some kids think its football and go for a tackle.  It’s quite funny.  Jayden has maintained all A’s again.  He has really matured this year and has become so responsible.  I’m very proud of him for stepping up and taking on additional responsibilities.

Taryn is now reading level D, and may be moved to level E today.  It’s amazing to see how much she’s grown up this year as well.  Although she is still super cute, she’s not the cute ‘little’ girl anymore. She still loves to play babies and barbies and all that little girly stuff but she has so much ‘adult like’ behavior as well. I guess it’s because she has older siblings but I hear the other Kindergartners in her class and they all sound like babies, whining and throwing fits during the class parties.  She looks at them like they are crazy.  She comes home with the greatest stories.  I love her personality and the little lady she is turning out to be.  She’s always been our sassiest and I’ve prayed we don’t let her become too sassy.

Jeff and I are starting to make some changes around the house.  I’m super excited about this.  I’ve got someone coming to paint next week and then it’s onto light fixtures, ceiling fans, the kitchen and the pool!  I think we now know exactly what we want so it’s time to get it done!

Playing Catch-up

I’m appalled that it’s been a year since my last blog post.  I wrote a few times in 2012 but it was nothing I could post for the world to read.  2012 was a tough year for my family.  We had some good with the bad but we are all definitely glad for 2013 to be here.  We will make this a good year!

To catch you up…

Jayden’s finger healed properly from his surgery and he’s back to playing basketball.  He pretty much missed the whole season last year, only getting to play in the final playoff and championship game.  He was a trooper about it and attended most of the practices and games to support his team.  He turned 11 in the summer and is now in 5th grade.

Taryn finished pre-K in May and is now half way through Kindergarten.  She turned 6 in November and is as sweet and sassy as always. She loves school, loves to read and according to her teacher is a big helper in class.  She has no patience for people who are not following the rules (wonder who she gets that from) so her little stories each day are priceless.  She learned to ride her bike last summer so she is on the go!

Kiarra broke her knuckle at some point during the school year last year and had surgery on it over the summer.  It’s healed nicely as well and she was able to play volleyball for her school team and is playing club again this year.  We've seen great improvement in the past few months and really enjoy watching her and the girls play.  She will be 14 next month and is in 8th grade.

Tamia is now a freshman in high school. She’s in dance and is enjoying high school.

I hurt my knee early in 2012 and was in denial all year that I needed surgery.  After enduring months of pain, I finally had knee surgery in November.  They fixed my torn meniscus and my knee cap was crooked so they clipped a ligament to get it to straighten up.  OUCH, is about all I have to say about it. I didn’t miss much work, surgery was on a Thursday and I returned to work on Monday.  I just had my 6 week check-up and the doctor said it’s doing ok and she has cleared me to jog/run again.  YAY!

Jeff was healthy most of the year. It seems that the rest of us all had some major illness or surgery but he held down the fort.  His year was pretty stressful dealing with custody stuff but in the end, we have to remember that God is bigger than all our worries.  It’s been 18 months since Tamia told us she wanted to live with us and the court system is still stringing it along.  They’ve strung so long that she’s changed her mind back and forth a dozen times.  One weekend she wants to come live with us and begs us not to take her home and then her Mom decides to give her mass freedom and she thinks she doesn’t want to live with us.  It’s been an emotional roller coaster for Jeff, the kids and I.  Although we try to shelter them (especially Taryn) from it all, the reality is that it’s very difficult when it’s consumed so much of our time. 

On a happier note…

We bought a house in June.  The kids were so excited to have neighbor kids to play with again and design/paint their rooms to their likings.  We put pressure on ourselves to get into a house that was zoned to the high school that we want the kids to go to (and we thought Tamia would be living with us starting in the summer of 2012) that we looked past some of the things in the house that normally would of turned us away.  We also settled for this house knowing we could make the back yard beautiful with a pool and an outdoor kitchen.  The previous owners said they’d scoped out a pool so we knew it wouldn’t be a problem.  At closing, we discovered the backyard has a 14 feet easement!  FOURTEEN feet!!!  That is practically half of the back yard.  So much for the big beautiful pool.  Because of this, and a few other reasons, I hated the house for months…absolutely hated it.  I tried so hard to be grateful for what God has blessed us with and be positive for the kids but the reality was that I hated the house and as the days moved forward, I hated it more and more.  One day, soon after closing, I realized that the color of the bricks is the ugliest shades of light brown??... How does one not notice this when they’ve gone to see the house 5 times… I’ll tell you!  They, I, wore sunglasses that are tinted with red which totally changed the color of the brick!  I had those sunglasses on each time we went to see the house and didn’t notice how ugly it was until after we signed papers. Hmmm, not much I can do about this now.

Some of my dislikes in the house are fixable with a little paint.  With my knee situation, I was not able to paint so I’m still looking at the ugly baby blue that it’s my master bedroom.  As if it’s not bad enough to drive up to the house every day and tremble at the ugly brick, I walk into the master bedroom and tremble at the baby blue on walls.  Who paints the master bedroom and bathroom BABY BLUE!!!  Isn’t that for a nursery??!!  Again, it’s fixable with some paint and I have the paint, I’ve had it since June 29th!  I bought all the paint for the master and all the kids’ rooms and the only room we’ve painted is Tamia’s.  Kiarra, my Mom and I surprised her and painted it while she was visiting her Auntie for a day.  It was a rough day, but we pushed through and painted one wall hot pink, one wall turquoise and the other walls white.  It was a dark green so it took several coats to cover it.  It is bright but looks beautiful.  She loved it. 

My main annoyance with the house is the kitchen.  I did recognize the kitchen was not to my liking prior to signing papers but I looked past it since I was going to get a nice outdoor kitchen.  Our last 2 homes have had 20+ nice size cabinets. This house has 11 narrow cabinets.  We are talking to contractor now about rebuilding the kitchen so I’ll update you on that at another time.  It’s just crazy to me that a house of this size would have such a small kitchen. Again, it’s fixable - just time consuming and costly.

A great thing about the house is the closet space; we are not lacking in that at all!  I have a closet in my laundry room that I’m using as my second pantry to store the crock pots, roaster, rice cooker, etc.  I do love all the closet space.  I also love the sun-room and the office.  The dining room is a bit small, our table will not fit in there with the extensions so that pretty much sucks but the room itself is nice.  There is an awesome app ‘Houzz’ that is amazing so I've found a lot of great ideas for projects to make the house a home I absolutely love. 

With the new house, came the apprehension that the kids had to change schools.  A brand new elementary was being built in our neighborhood just around the corner from the house so Jayden is having to spend his last year of elementary at a new school. We are zoned to a different Jr High as well so Kiarra had to say “see you later” to all the kids she’s known since pre-school.  They’ll meet up again in high school. Neither of them had any problems with the change and actually Kiarra was glad to change. Jayden wasn't as ok with it at first but once he met a few kids in the neighborhood, he was perfectly fine and happy for the change.   

Another great thing about where we are now is all of our neighbors.  We couldn't have asked for better neighbors with great kids. We've had great neighbors before so this was very important to us and something that caused me great anxiety because you just never know what you are getting yourself into when you move. The day we moved in, our neighbors across the street introduced themselves and invited Jayden out to play!  This gave me such peace. By the end of the weekend, the kids were invited out to play many times and we’d met the majority of our neighbors.

The best thing about 2012 was the birth of our sweet niece Corinne.  She is a true blessing to our family.  She brings us so much happiness.

We were fortunate enough again this past Christmas to be able to go spend time with my family in Iowa.  I really love spending time with all of them. My niece and nephews are growing up too fast, so it was nice to be able to hang out with them and I finally got to meet my cousins’ new baby and my other cousins’ twins.  All in all, it was a great trip.

Fast forward and here we are.  We barely get home and the doorbell is ding-donging and it’s someone wanting to play or “hang out” with the kids.  I love this.  I’m also coming to terms with the fact that Jeff is not budging on selling this house anytime soon so we will move forward with the changes we want to make including adding a pool.  Only time will tell…

January 2012? WHOA!! I think I blinked and missed 2011.

January 2012? WHOA!! I think I blinked and missed 2011.

December was a busy month for the Dailey’s. Jayden started basketball and Kiarra got more into volleyball, and Taryn had her 5th b-day party. I had been so busy that I didn’t start Christmas shopping until the week before leaving for Iowa. I don’t know what has got into me the last few years but I have put it off too long! It’s fortunate that I have every other Friday off because I was able to do most of it while the stores were not too crazy. Jeff went with me the next day and we finished it. We had decided early in the month to go to Iowa again for the holidays this year. Since it’s difficult to travel with kids and gifts, we celebrated Christmas a few days early at home and then took a couple “Santa” gifts with us for the kids to open Christmas morning. Since Jeff and I had to work the day we had our family Christmas, we decided we’d go out to eat instead of cooking/cleaning up. Taryn could hardly stand being at dinner she was so stinking excited to get home and open gifts. She’d been eyeing hers for a few days which was torture for her. Each of them had a gift that was either odd shaped or too big to wrap so we sent them upstairs when we got home so we could pull the last few things out of the closet. We made them close their eyes as we guided them to the tree. Kiarra’s response was the best. In front of her was a keyboard that she’s wanted for quite a while. She had tears she was so excited. Jayden couldn’t really see his exposed gift because the massive keyboard was in the way but when he finally did, he loved his CSI stuff. He’s been trying to get my DNA for a month now! Then there is Taryn… As I’ve mentioned before, she’s had an imaginary dog for several years now. We thought it would be fitting to buy her this cute white remote control dog she’d seen on TV. She had expressed that she wanted it but I had no idea how much she really did want it. I also didn’t know that it barked and moved its head (a little creepy). She set eyes on the puppy and fell in LOVE! She was so thankful and happy that she didn’t really care to open anything else. She had to immediately walk the dog through the house and show her where she’d be living and playing. It was adorable. They one by one opened all their gifts and stayed up late taking everything out of the packaging, putting in batteries, etc. The only bad thing about celebrating early to go out of town is that they have to leave all their brand new stuff behind. They were so excited to get to Iowa that Taryn was the only one that really cared about leaving her stuff, specifically her dog. We left on Friday, the 23rd and drove straight through. We made awesome time, 15 hours flat! Jeff and I crashed the minute we got there (6:30 am) so we could be ready for Christmas Eve at Aunt Loretta’s later that afternoon. The kids were highly disappointed that there wasn’t any snow. They’ve never been there for Christmas when there wasn’t snow so they didn’t know what to do with themselves. They just thought that it ALWAYS snows in Iowa at Christmas. We headed over to Russ and Loretta’s house and had a delicious meal and great time playing games and catching up with everyone. I really enjoyed my time with them. Getting to see Kellie 9 months preggers was the highlight. I can’t wait to meet this precious little one. Kellie is glowing and beautiful.

Christmas morning was quite boring actually. The kids didn’t even notice their “Santa” gifts so after being awake for a few hours I finally sent Taryn to Grandpa’s 1 ½ foot tree to see if there was anything there for her. I guess I love it that they don’t think Christmas is about gifts but I was still expecting them to be looking for them at the crack of dawn. They opened their gifts and we chilled and watched them play with their new games/stuff. I helped Mom get food together for later when her side of the family would be coming. It wasn’t long and there was a house full of people. Taryn had lots of cousins to play with and I got to catch up with my cousin’s wife who is expecting twins. It was so great to see her. She looks amazing, I can hardly believe she is carrying twins, and I can’t wait to see little Miss Kennedy as a big sister. Taryn loves Kennedy and wishes we lived closer so they could play every day.

Monday was another adventurous day. Tamia flew up from being with her Mom. We picked her up at the Omaha airport and went straight to Teige and Kathy’s house to celebrate Christmas with them, my nephews, Talan, my niece and the Gochenours. They always have a good feast for us so we enjoyed eating, drinking some delicious wine and chilling out. The best part of the night is when Makenzie opened her gift from Teige, Kathy, Logan and Morgan. It was a box, wrapped in a box, in another box, and another box… Each box was wrapped and then saran wrapped. It was so funny! Of course she didn’t think it was too funny but everyone else did. She had a great gift after all that work. Love you Kenz!!

Kiarra and Tamia ended up spending the night with a friend of theirs there in Logan. Taryn was sad she couldn’t stay with her “blonde friends” but was really happy to get to see them again. We saw them again the next night too. She loved seeing their house and their rooms. I think that she really thinks they are her best friends.

Tuesday I took Makenzie home and then went to see a friend from high school. Even though we only got to catch up for a few minutes, it was so great to see her again after all these years. We had talked here and there and I saw her when she was pregnant with her oldest but that was 10 years ago! I miss her and her awesome family. FB brought us back together and I hope to not lose touch again!

Wednesday we had our annual fun day planned with the Ulven/Hernandez families. Every time we go to Iowa we always spend a day in Blair at Ang and Chris’ house. Our kids all get along so well and play as if no time has passed since the last time we’d been there (1 year). I’d been waiting months to get my hands on sweet little Emma May and the time finally came! I had heard that she was going through a phase where she didn’t like anyone but her Mama but she liked me just fine…actually, I think she loved me. She cuddled right up to me and we coo’d and ooo’d and aaaa’d. Oh, I love her so much already! We learned a new card game while there so this is our new thing at home most nights.

Thursday we chilled, played games and packed. I made a visit to Bloomy’s Boutique in Soldier and bought a few shirts for the girls. Cute shop, if you are in the area, you should check it out. I even ran into more family while in there and got to see another little cutie patootie baby girl! Since this was our last evening, we had to go to AK in Ute. Teige and family, Talan, Loretta and family were all able to make it over for our last dinner. It was pretty good but not as good as normal. I was quite pissed, as were several others that they were out of prime rib!!! How does that happen!??!
We were on the road by 5 am Friday morning and got home safe, and quick. Saying good-bye is always tough but it was so good to be home.
January was here at a blink of an eye and here we are in the last full week of the month. The kids jumped right back into school and activities. Kiarra had her first official club volleyball tournament and it was awesome. They didn’t win every game but she hustled and played really well. Jayden had an unfortunate accident 2 days before his first official game. He was running through the house to jump on his Daddy’s back but hit his hand on the arm of couch. He broke his pinkie finger and within a few days had surgery where they put pins in place. He’s in a cast for 3 weeks so will miss several of his games. If all goes well, he will get to play in the last 2 – 3 games.
That’s what we’ve been up to the past month!

Family Update

Christmas is in 2 weeks and I have not bought 1 gift! It’s been a busy month since I last blogged and this is what’s been going on…
Kiarra had a great volleyball season with school. Her team was undefeated! She played with a good group of girls and had a great time. She is now in club volleyball and has her first tournament this weekend! I’ve already seen improvement and can’t wait to see her on the court tomorrow! She continues to get all A’s and B’s in school and is overall doing great.

Jayden has been a growing machine; I think he’s grown 2 inches since school started! He is playing basketball now and really likes it. He was crazy excited for his first practice, he couldn’t sleep the night before. According to his coach he is really good for his age considering he’s had no formal training or experience. I guess shooting hoops out front has paid off! Jayden is still on the straight A path so all is well in school. He is playing chess again this year too. Jayden has a lead part in the Christmas program at church and that is this weekend so we are really excited for him to be part of that. We love this church so much and are so thankful to be part of an amazing church family.

Taryn has been learning so much this year, she is practically reading. I am amazed at the level of education this “daycare” provides. She has by far exceeded our expectations and we are so proud of her. She had her winter dance recital last night and did a great job. She was so cute doing her little hip hop and ballet dances. After leaving the recital last night we were telling her how proud of her we are and how great of a job she did. I told her I recorded the dances and she immediately asked in a super excited voice “will you put them on you tube?” Kiarra and I cracked up! The things that come out of this girl’s mouth are hilarious.

Taryn also had a birthday in November. She is 5 now!!! F-I-V-E!!! What the heck, how did our sweet baby girl grow up so fast? We just had her birthday party this past weekend and she had a really great time. I was expecting 23 kids and ended up having 27 so she had plenty of friends to keep her busy. Jeff had a great time too – all of you who were there know what I’m talking about! He was a little sore on Sunday but said it was worth it!

We went out of town to Rockport, TX for Thanksgiving. We rented a house on the bay and it was a lot of fun. Jeff’s parents, Grandmother, brother and his wife, 2 cousins and the 6 of us were all in one house but there was plenty of room. We had a pool table and a ping pong table, a boat (that we didn’t use), fishing poles, and much more. The main attraction was the Just Dance 3 Wii game that everyone had a great time playing. Even Taryn got into the action with the older girls. Jayden spent a lot of time fishing and he caught his first fish (3 actually)! The sunsets were amazing and we got to capture a photo that I’ve wanted for years! Tamia was with us the entire week and it was great to have her with us again. We had a really nice Thanksgiving and are looking forward to destination Thanksgiving 2012.

Jeff is doing really well. He and his crew were number 1 again in his area and number 7 for the region which is really awesome. I’m really proud of him. His health is much better, thank God! Doctor said if his numbers continue to improve he’ll take him off some of the medications. Yay!
I’m doing well also. My new job is great and I’m so glad I took this opportunity. I’m working with some great people on a massive government mandated project so I will be keeping myself really busy while here at the office. I am working the 9/80 schedule again which is awesome. I need to get my Christmas shopping started (and finished) because we are COMING HOME for Christmas again! I’m so excited. The kids have been asking all year if we can go to Iowa for Christmas again but it’s so hard to travel this time of year because of Tamia but we’ve made arrangements and are super excited to have a white Christmas again (it better be white)! The kids cried when we told them. They really love to be there during the holidays. It’s going to be a short trip but as always it’ll be worth it.


We had new family pictures taken a few weeks back. They turned out pretty good. Christmas cards were mailed, all 245 of them. I swear I'm going to cut back or not send them next year, my hand about fell off from addressing all of them in one evening. I think I'll just put it on FB since the majority of people are on FB anyway. I'll post the new family pic in a few days.