SURPRISE SURPRISE

I love the month of February.  Things are back to normal after the holidays, the kids are counting down to spring break, Kiarra and my Mom both have birthdays, volleyball and basketball are in full swing and it’s a few months closer to school releasing for the year (something I look more forward to than the kids).

This year my Mom was turning 60 so I wanted to do something special for her. I was plotting with my brothers to come down and surprise her and I was going to put a small party together for her.  She hates surprises (like mother like daughter) but since it would be her kids and grand-kids coming, it would have been worth it.  Teige and family had a lot going on with Logan being a Senior, wrestling at the state tournament, etc. so they didn't think they were going to be able to make it.  I was trying to plan anyway but thing just didn't work out as I hoped for. There was a massive snow storm coming their way and the weather was looking real ugly all through Iowa, Nebraska, Kansas and Oklahoma.  Talan, Mollie and Makenzie were still planning to come so I was planning out how we’d do the grandioso surprise.  Since they were going to be driving all night Friday night, I gave them directions to the school where Jayden would be playing in his basketball game on Saturday morning. Thursday came and Talan started asking me questions he normally wouldn't ask.  We don’t talk often so for him to ask me ‘so, what are you guys doing tonight?’ and ‘what time do you get off work tomorrow?’ was so very suspicious to me.  BUSTED!!  I knew they were already in Houston or close by.  See, I hate surprises too so my head is now spinning at the fact they can show up at my house at any moment. Holy smokes, we kicked into high gear trying to get laundry done, toys picked up, sheets changed, and to top it off, I hadn’t got groceries yet!!  I was planning to do all that on Friday since it was my day off and I quickly realized I had less than an hour to do it all.  YIKES… well, laundry and groceries waited until the next day but the kids and I managed to get the sheets changed, dishes done, floors swept, carpet vacuumed and Taryns toys picked up in time for their arrival… but now how are we going to surprise Mom. I know she is in Katy on Thursdays after work so I called her and pretended like I was really upset about something and asked her to come over so I could talk.  At this point, I know Talan is already within 30 minutes from our house and she could take anywhere from 20 - 40 minutes. My heart is racing, who is going to show up first.  Thankfully, Mom showed up first so I laid a sob story on her and told her I quit my job… I even had tears (I should probably be an actress J).  I actually laughed a few times at the ridiculousness of my story but pulled myself together so she wouldn't notice.  Ok…on to the surprise.  I left the garage open so they could just walk into the house.  Jeff had to leave to pick up Jayden from practice at the same time I got a text that they were outside.  P-E-R-F-E-C-T!  Jeff started to leave and in they walked.  Talan said “Happy Birthday” and Mom just stared at him, did a double take and jumped up.  Priceless!  Mom was pleasantly surprised and I quickly confessed that I didn't quit my job.  They were pretty exhausted from driving 14 hours, many of them through snow and ice and since I had no food we had to go out to eat.  What better than taking them to our favorite Mexican restaurant Chuys. We had a nice dinner and went our separate ways. Talan and Mollie stayed with Mom and Kenzie stayed at our house.

Mom was supposed to work on Friday but her boss let her take a last minute vacation day to spend time with them while they were here. Our kids only had a half day at school so it all worked out well.  Jeff and Talan went bowling Friday morning while Mollie did some homework.  Makenzie, Kiarra and I loaded up on groceries and made snacks, cake balls, dips and food for the weekend.  Once Mom, Talan and Mollie finally came over, I took them around town to show them where the kids go to school, where they will go to high school, the new humongous high school, etc.  The remainder of the day we decided to just chill out and go to Katy Mills mall for a little shopping. Although Makenzie already has her prom dress, it was fun to look at dresses and see what she might like for next year. After our little shopping escapade, I made dinner while the rest played cards.  Taryn whooped everyone in the polish poker games that evening!

Saturday, Jayden had 2 basketball games so they were able to see him in action.  He played really well and had several points.  After his games, they all went to Traders Village while Kiarra and I worked on her scrap book.  I grilled up a feast including wings, burgers, hot dogs, bacon wrapped shrimp, queso, mac & cheese, baked beans, grilled veggies, etc.  After eating, I suggested we play hide and seek in the dark.  Talan, Mollie and Makenzie hadn't played this before and they later told us that they didn't think it would be fun.  We proved them wrong.  We had lots of laughs, and memories that we will talk about for years.

Sunday, we all slept in and it felt great… well until I realized we missed church.  Oops! We went to Moms for lunch and then headed to the outlets in Fairfield.  We did a lot of shopping while they were here.  We wanted to go to Galveston but it was chilly and it would have been late by the time we would have got there.  Makenzie, Kiarra, Jeff and I went to our favorite Sushi restaurant for dinner while the others stayed at Moms and ordered pizza.  They were planning to leave at 1:00 am so we let them rest and headed home to get our kids to bed.

It was so great to see them and spend time with them.  Each time we go to Iowa, everyone is always busy so we are limited on the time we get to see them. It was great to have them for 3 days, all to ourselves…especially you MAKENZIE!!

Kiarra has had several volleyball tournaments this year.  She has improved greatly and gets a lot of play time.  Tournaments are so exciting… stressful but exciting.  My back always hurts for a day or so after we have one from the intensity of each game.  We only have 3 tournaments left before the big 3 day, Lone Star Classic in Dallas in April. She’s done well in school, kept her grades to all A’s and B’s which I’m happy with.  Her 8th grade dance is in April which she is really excited about. 

Jayden has had a basketball game each Saturday for the past 2 months and has done really well.  Last night he scored 12 of our 25 points. They have a play just for him called ‘FIRE’ where he is able to make a fast break and go for a layup.  Basketball is pretty exciting too.  They are really rough with each other considering they are only 5th graders. Some kids think its football and go for a tackle.  It’s quite funny.  Jayden has maintained all A’s again.  He has really matured this year and has become so responsible.  I’m very proud of him for stepping up and taking on additional responsibilities.

Taryn is now reading level D, and may be moved to level E today.  It’s amazing to see how much she’s grown up this year as well.  Although she is still super cute, she’s not the cute ‘little’ girl anymore. She still loves to play babies and barbies and all that little girly stuff but she has so much ‘adult like’ behavior as well. I guess it’s because she has older siblings but I hear the other Kindergartners in her class and they all sound like babies, whining and throwing fits during the class parties.  She looks at them like they are crazy.  She comes home with the greatest stories.  I love her personality and the little lady she is turning out to be.  She’s always been our sassiest and I’ve prayed we don’t let her become too sassy.

Jeff and I are starting to make some changes around the house.  I’m super excited about this.  I’ve got someone coming to paint next week and then it’s onto light fixtures, ceiling fans, the kitchen and the pool!  I think we now know exactly what we want so it’s time to get it done!

Playing Catch-up

I’m appalled that it’s been a year since my last blog post.  I wrote a few times in 2012 but it was nothing I could post for the world to read.  2012 was a tough year for my family.  We had some good with the bad but we are all definitely glad for 2013 to be here.  We will make this a good year!

To catch you up…

Jayden’s finger healed properly from his surgery and he’s back to playing basketball.  He pretty much missed the whole season last year, only getting to play in the final playoff and championship game.  He was a trooper about it and attended most of the practices and games to support his team.  He turned 11 in the summer and is now in 5th grade.

Taryn finished pre-K in May and is now half way through Kindergarten.  She turned 6 in November and is as sweet and sassy as always. She loves school, loves to read and according to her teacher is a big helper in class.  She has no patience for people who are not following the rules (wonder who she gets that from) so her little stories each day are priceless.  She learned to ride her bike last summer so she is on the go!

Kiarra broke her knuckle at some point during the school year last year and had surgery on it over the summer.  It’s healed nicely as well and she was able to play volleyball for her school team and is playing club again this year.  We've seen great improvement in the past few months and really enjoy watching her and the girls play.  She will be 14 next month and is in 8th grade.

Tamia is now a freshman in high school. She’s in dance and is enjoying high school.

I hurt my knee early in 2012 and was in denial all year that I needed surgery.  After enduring months of pain, I finally had knee surgery in November.  They fixed my torn meniscus and my knee cap was crooked so they clipped a ligament to get it to straighten up.  OUCH, is about all I have to say about it. I didn’t miss much work, surgery was on a Thursday and I returned to work on Monday.  I just had my 6 week check-up and the doctor said it’s doing ok and she has cleared me to jog/run again.  YAY!

Jeff was healthy most of the year. It seems that the rest of us all had some major illness or surgery but he held down the fort.  His year was pretty stressful dealing with custody stuff but in the end, we have to remember that God is bigger than all our worries.  It’s been 18 months since Tamia told us she wanted to live with us and the court system is still stringing it along.  They’ve strung so long that she’s changed her mind back and forth a dozen times.  One weekend she wants to come live with us and begs us not to take her home and then her Mom decides to give her mass freedom and she thinks she doesn’t want to live with us.  It’s been an emotional roller coaster for Jeff, the kids and I.  Although we try to shelter them (especially Taryn) from it all, the reality is that it’s very difficult when it’s consumed so much of our time. 

On a happier note…

We bought a house in June.  The kids were so excited to have neighbor kids to play with again and design/paint their rooms to their likings.  We put pressure on ourselves to get into a house that was zoned to the high school that we want the kids to go to (and we thought Tamia would be living with us starting in the summer of 2012) that we looked past some of the things in the house that normally would of turned us away.  We also settled for this house knowing we could make the back yard beautiful with a pool and an outdoor kitchen.  The previous owners said they’d scoped out a pool so we knew it wouldn’t be a problem.  At closing, we discovered the backyard has a 14 feet easement!  FOURTEEN feet!!!  That is practically half of the back yard.  So much for the big beautiful pool.  Because of this, and a few other reasons, I hated the house for months…absolutely hated it.  I tried so hard to be grateful for what God has blessed us with and be positive for the kids but the reality was that I hated the house and as the days moved forward, I hated it more and more.  One day, soon after closing, I realized that the color of the bricks is the ugliest shades of light brown??... How does one not notice this when they’ve gone to see the house 5 times… I’ll tell you!  They, I, wore sunglasses that are tinted with red which totally changed the color of the brick!  I had those sunglasses on each time we went to see the house and didn’t notice how ugly it was until after we signed papers. Hmmm, not much I can do about this now.

Some of my dislikes in the house are fixable with a little paint.  With my knee situation, I was not able to paint so I’m still looking at the ugly baby blue that it’s my master bedroom.  As if it’s not bad enough to drive up to the house every day and tremble at the ugly brick, I walk into the master bedroom and tremble at the baby blue on walls.  Who paints the master bedroom and bathroom BABY BLUE!!!  Isn’t that for a nursery??!!  Again, it’s fixable with some paint and I have the paint, I’ve had it since June 29th!  I bought all the paint for the master and all the kids’ rooms and the only room we’ve painted is Tamia’s.  Kiarra, my Mom and I surprised her and painted it while she was visiting her Auntie for a day.  It was a rough day, but we pushed through and painted one wall hot pink, one wall turquoise and the other walls white.  It was a dark green so it took several coats to cover it.  It is bright but looks beautiful.  She loved it. 

My main annoyance with the house is the kitchen.  I did recognize the kitchen was not to my liking prior to signing papers but I looked past it since I was going to get a nice outdoor kitchen.  Our last 2 homes have had 20+ nice size cabinets. This house has 11 narrow cabinets.  We are talking to contractor now about rebuilding the kitchen so I’ll update you on that at another time.  It’s just crazy to me that a house of this size would have such a small kitchen. Again, it’s fixable - just time consuming and costly.

A great thing about the house is the closet space; we are not lacking in that at all!  I have a closet in my laundry room that I’m using as my second pantry to store the crock pots, roaster, rice cooker, etc.  I do love all the closet space.  I also love the sun-room and the office.  The dining room is a bit small, our table will not fit in there with the extensions so that pretty much sucks but the room itself is nice.  There is an awesome app ‘Houzz’ that is amazing so I've found a lot of great ideas for projects to make the house a home I absolutely love. 

With the new house, came the apprehension that the kids had to change schools.  A brand new elementary was being built in our neighborhood just around the corner from the house so Jayden is having to spend his last year of elementary at a new school. We are zoned to a different Jr High as well so Kiarra had to say “see you later” to all the kids she’s known since pre-school.  They’ll meet up again in high school. Neither of them had any problems with the change and actually Kiarra was glad to change. Jayden wasn't as ok with it at first but once he met a few kids in the neighborhood, he was perfectly fine and happy for the change.   

Another great thing about where we are now is all of our neighbors.  We couldn't have asked for better neighbors with great kids. We've had great neighbors before so this was very important to us and something that caused me great anxiety because you just never know what you are getting yourself into when you move. The day we moved in, our neighbors across the street introduced themselves and invited Jayden out to play!  This gave me such peace. By the end of the weekend, the kids were invited out to play many times and we’d met the majority of our neighbors.

The best thing about 2012 was the birth of our sweet niece Corinne.  She is a true blessing to our family.  She brings us so much happiness.

We were fortunate enough again this past Christmas to be able to go spend time with my family in Iowa.  I really love spending time with all of them. My niece and nephews are growing up too fast, so it was nice to be able to hang out with them and I finally got to meet my cousins’ new baby and my other cousins’ twins.  All in all, it was a great trip.

Fast forward and here we are.  We barely get home and the doorbell is ding-donging and it’s someone wanting to play or “hang out” with the kids.  I love this.  I’m also coming to terms with the fact that Jeff is not budging on selling this house anytime soon so we will move forward with the changes we want to make including adding a pool.  Only time will tell…

January 2012? WHOA!! I think I blinked and missed 2011.

January 2012? WHOA!! I think I blinked and missed 2011.

December was a busy month for the Dailey’s. Jayden started basketball and Kiarra got more into volleyball, and Taryn had her 5th b-day party. I had been so busy that I didn’t start Christmas shopping until the week before leaving for Iowa. I don’t know what has got into me the last few years but I have put it off too long! It’s fortunate that I have every other Friday off because I was able to do most of it while the stores were not too crazy. Jeff went with me the next day and we finished it. We had decided early in the month to go to Iowa again for the holidays this year. Since it’s difficult to travel with kids and gifts, we celebrated Christmas a few days early at home and then took a couple “Santa” gifts with us for the kids to open Christmas morning. Since Jeff and I had to work the day we had our family Christmas, we decided we’d go out to eat instead of cooking/cleaning up. Taryn could hardly stand being at dinner she was so stinking excited to get home and open gifts. She’d been eyeing hers for a few days which was torture for her. Each of them had a gift that was either odd shaped or too big to wrap so we sent them upstairs when we got home so we could pull the last few things out of the closet. We made them close their eyes as we guided them to the tree. Kiarra’s response was the best. In front of her was a keyboard that she’s wanted for quite a while. She had tears she was so excited. Jayden couldn’t really see his exposed gift because the massive keyboard was in the way but when he finally did, he loved his CSI stuff. He’s been trying to get my DNA for a month now! Then there is Taryn… As I’ve mentioned before, she’s had an imaginary dog for several years now. We thought it would be fitting to buy her this cute white remote control dog she’d seen on TV. She had expressed that she wanted it but I had no idea how much she really did want it. I also didn’t know that it barked and moved its head (a little creepy). She set eyes on the puppy and fell in LOVE! She was so thankful and happy that she didn’t really care to open anything else. She had to immediately walk the dog through the house and show her where she’d be living and playing. It was adorable. They one by one opened all their gifts and stayed up late taking everything out of the packaging, putting in batteries, etc. The only bad thing about celebrating early to go out of town is that they have to leave all their brand new stuff behind. They were so excited to get to Iowa that Taryn was the only one that really cared about leaving her stuff, specifically her dog. We left on Friday, the 23rd and drove straight through. We made awesome time, 15 hours flat! Jeff and I crashed the minute we got there (6:30 am) so we could be ready for Christmas Eve at Aunt Loretta’s later that afternoon. The kids were highly disappointed that there wasn’t any snow. They’ve never been there for Christmas when there wasn’t snow so they didn’t know what to do with themselves. They just thought that it ALWAYS snows in Iowa at Christmas. We headed over to Russ and Loretta’s house and had a delicious meal and great time playing games and catching up with everyone. I really enjoyed my time with them. Getting to see Kellie 9 months preggers was the highlight. I can’t wait to meet this precious little one. Kellie is glowing and beautiful.

Christmas morning was quite boring actually. The kids didn’t even notice their “Santa” gifts so after being awake for a few hours I finally sent Taryn to Grandpa’s 1 ½ foot tree to see if there was anything there for her. I guess I love it that they don’t think Christmas is about gifts but I was still expecting them to be looking for them at the crack of dawn. They opened their gifts and we chilled and watched them play with their new games/stuff. I helped Mom get food together for later when her side of the family would be coming. It wasn’t long and there was a house full of people. Taryn had lots of cousins to play with and I got to catch up with my cousin’s wife who is expecting twins. It was so great to see her. She looks amazing, I can hardly believe she is carrying twins, and I can’t wait to see little Miss Kennedy as a big sister. Taryn loves Kennedy and wishes we lived closer so they could play every day.

Monday was another adventurous day. Tamia flew up from being with her Mom. We picked her up at the Omaha airport and went straight to Teige and Kathy’s house to celebrate Christmas with them, my nephews, Talan, my niece and the Gochenours. They always have a good feast for us so we enjoyed eating, drinking some delicious wine and chilling out. The best part of the night is when Makenzie opened her gift from Teige, Kathy, Logan and Morgan. It was a box, wrapped in a box, in another box, and another box… Each box was wrapped and then saran wrapped. It was so funny! Of course she didn’t think it was too funny but everyone else did. She had a great gift after all that work. Love you Kenz!!

Kiarra and Tamia ended up spending the night with a friend of theirs there in Logan. Taryn was sad she couldn’t stay with her “blonde friends” but was really happy to get to see them again. We saw them again the next night too. She loved seeing their house and their rooms. I think that she really thinks they are her best friends.

Tuesday I took Makenzie home and then went to see a friend from high school. Even though we only got to catch up for a few minutes, it was so great to see her again after all these years. We had talked here and there and I saw her when she was pregnant with her oldest but that was 10 years ago! I miss her and her awesome family. FB brought us back together and I hope to not lose touch again!

Wednesday we had our annual fun day planned with the Ulven/Hernandez families. Every time we go to Iowa we always spend a day in Blair at Ang and Chris’ house. Our kids all get along so well and play as if no time has passed since the last time we’d been there (1 year). I’d been waiting months to get my hands on sweet little Emma May and the time finally came! I had heard that she was going through a phase where she didn’t like anyone but her Mama but she liked me just fine…actually, I think she loved me. She cuddled right up to me and we coo’d and ooo’d and aaaa’d. Oh, I love her so much already! We learned a new card game while there so this is our new thing at home most nights.

Thursday we chilled, played games and packed. I made a visit to Bloomy’s Boutique in Soldier and bought a few shirts for the girls. Cute shop, if you are in the area, you should check it out. I even ran into more family while in there and got to see another little cutie patootie baby girl! Since this was our last evening, we had to go to AK in Ute. Teige and family, Talan, Loretta and family were all able to make it over for our last dinner. It was pretty good but not as good as normal. I was quite pissed, as were several others that they were out of prime rib!!! How does that happen!??!
We were on the road by 5 am Friday morning and got home safe, and quick. Saying good-bye is always tough but it was so good to be home.
January was here at a blink of an eye and here we are in the last full week of the month. The kids jumped right back into school and activities. Kiarra had her first official club volleyball tournament and it was awesome. They didn’t win every game but she hustled and played really well. Jayden had an unfortunate accident 2 days before his first official game. He was running through the house to jump on his Daddy’s back but hit his hand on the arm of couch. He broke his pinkie finger and within a few days had surgery where they put pins in place. He’s in a cast for 3 weeks so will miss several of his games. If all goes well, he will get to play in the last 2 – 3 games.
That’s what we’ve been up to the past month!

Family Update

Christmas is in 2 weeks and I have not bought 1 gift! It’s been a busy month since I last blogged and this is what’s been going on…
Kiarra had a great volleyball season with school. Her team was undefeated! She played with a good group of girls and had a great time. She is now in club volleyball and has her first tournament this weekend! I’ve already seen improvement and can’t wait to see her on the court tomorrow! She continues to get all A’s and B’s in school and is overall doing great.

Jayden has been a growing machine; I think he’s grown 2 inches since school started! He is playing basketball now and really likes it. He was crazy excited for his first practice, he couldn’t sleep the night before. According to his coach he is really good for his age considering he’s had no formal training or experience. I guess shooting hoops out front has paid off! Jayden is still on the straight A path so all is well in school. He is playing chess again this year too. Jayden has a lead part in the Christmas program at church and that is this weekend so we are really excited for him to be part of that. We love this church so much and are so thankful to be part of an amazing church family.

Taryn has been learning so much this year, she is practically reading. I am amazed at the level of education this “daycare” provides. She has by far exceeded our expectations and we are so proud of her. She had her winter dance recital last night and did a great job. She was so cute doing her little hip hop and ballet dances. After leaving the recital last night we were telling her how proud of her we are and how great of a job she did. I told her I recorded the dances and she immediately asked in a super excited voice “will you put them on you tube?” Kiarra and I cracked up! The things that come out of this girl’s mouth are hilarious.

Taryn also had a birthday in November. She is 5 now!!! F-I-V-E!!! What the heck, how did our sweet baby girl grow up so fast? We just had her birthday party this past weekend and she had a really great time. I was expecting 23 kids and ended up having 27 so she had plenty of friends to keep her busy. Jeff had a great time too – all of you who were there know what I’m talking about! He was a little sore on Sunday but said it was worth it!

We went out of town to Rockport, TX for Thanksgiving. We rented a house on the bay and it was a lot of fun. Jeff’s parents, Grandmother, brother and his wife, 2 cousins and the 6 of us were all in one house but there was plenty of room. We had a pool table and a ping pong table, a boat (that we didn’t use), fishing poles, and much more. The main attraction was the Just Dance 3 Wii game that everyone had a great time playing. Even Taryn got into the action with the older girls. Jayden spent a lot of time fishing and he caught his first fish (3 actually)! The sunsets were amazing and we got to capture a photo that I’ve wanted for years! Tamia was with us the entire week and it was great to have her with us again. We had a really nice Thanksgiving and are looking forward to destination Thanksgiving 2012.

Jeff is doing really well. He and his crew were number 1 again in his area and number 7 for the region which is really awesome. I’m really proud of him. His health is much better, thank God! Doctor said if his numbers continue to improve he’ll take him off some of the medications. Yay!
I’m doing well also. My new job is great and I’m so glad I took this opportunity. I’m working with some great people on a massive government mandated project so I will be keeping myself really busy while here at the office. I am working the 9/80 schedule again which is awesome. I need to get my Christmas shopping started (and finished) because we are COMING HOME for Christmas again! I’m so excited. The kids have been asking all year if we can go to Iowa for Christmas again but it’s so hard to travel this time of year because of Tamia but we’ve made arrangements and are super excited to have a white Christmas again (it better be white)! The kids cried when we told them. They really love to be there during the holidays. It’s going to be a short trip but as always it’ll be worth it.


We had new family pictures taken a few weeks back. They turned out pretty good. Christmas cards were mailed, all 245 of them. I swear I'm going to cut back or not send them next year, my hand about fell off from addressing all of them in one evening. I think I'll just put it on FB since the majority of people are on FB anyway. I'll post the new family pic in a few days.

Back to work...back to reality

Well peeps, my time as a stay at home wife/mom has come to an end. Monday was my first day back to work. It all happened so fast that I didn't get an opportunity to tell many people about this. I interviewed last week, received the offer last Wednesday and started this past Monday. It's been a great first week. I'm super excited to be working a 9/80 schedule again. For those who don't know what that is, you basically work 80 hours in 9 days instead of 10 and have every other Friday off. It's awesome!! I'm not sure if I'm more excited about that or the fact that I'm hiring Helga back to clean the house. It's great to be back at BP with a new group of professionals.
Let's back track a few weeks... Kiarra finished up her 7th grade volleyball season undefeated! She played with a great group of girls and I was happy for the drama free team she was on. She had a great coach and learned more about the sport. She starts club volleyball on Sunday and we are super excited about that. She is taking donations if anyone is interested :) Here are a few pics of her with a few volleyball friends. I took a few of her on the court with my camera but they didn't turn out too well. Taryn took all of these with my phone.

Jayden had tryouts for basketball last weekend. We'd already signed him up but he had to tryout to determine his level so the organization can place him in the right team. He is so ridiculously excited, he is driving me crazy. Practice doesn't start until after Thanksgiving and he is going crazy waiting! He's been practicing quite often and is improving daily.

Taryn is doing great in school and is learning so much. She comes home each day and teaches us new Spanish words she is learning and she is starting to read more and more! It is amazing to see her sound out the letters and read the words! She'll be 5 next week and I seriously can't believe it. It just doesn't seem possible that my baby girl will be 5 years old in a few days.

Trick-or-Treating was awesome this year. We didn't put any time or effort in costumes but we pulled it off...Jeff even got into the fun. We went to a friends house for the evening and the kids had so much fun. It was a great evening of fellowship, junk food and fun.

We are really looking forward to Thanksgiving this year. Now that the temps have cooled off a little, we can get into the fall spirit!!!

Happy Friday y'all!!!

It's super dark in here!!

The kids don't have school tomorrow so Jeff is preparing the house for all of us to play hide and seek in the dark. This is one of our most favorite things to do. Jayden has a friend over and Tamia is still with us so there are plenty of us to hide and seek and have a great time. Jeff is putting huge blankets over the big windows in the front of the house to block out the potential of any light coming in. It is going to be freakishly dark in here!!

Taryn is shooting a video tomorrow for a friend of ours and she is super excited. She thinks she is going to be a movie star. We keep telling her it's just a video and she insists on thinking she is going to be in a commercial on TV. She is hilarious.

Jayden got his report card this past week. All A's - YAY!! Kiarra's should be coming in the mail any day. Tamia is on a different schedule now so she won't get hers for a few weeks.

Kiarra played really good in volleyball this past week. She is gaining more confidence and going after the ball more. She has a few girls on her team that have played club ball for a few years and they are really really good so I think she is a little nervous that she'll mess up or something. We know she can kill that ball and only hope she will before the season is over. She serves really great and has been passing good as well.

I'm freaking out that Taryn is going to be 5 in a month!!! What the heck people! How is my baby girl almost 5 years old??!! Guess it's time to plan a party! Also time to plan for family pictures.... wonder what color/theme we'll go for this year. Suggestion are welcome!

Well the house is ready and the kids are asking me to get off the computer so we can play. Let the fun begin!!

6 weeks down...many more to go!

I have to start by apologizing to my family. I'm so sorry I've slacked and have not kept you all up-to-date with our lives!

Let's back track to the end of August. The kids started back to school on August 22nd. They just finished their first 6 weeks. Tamia in 8th, Kiarra in 7th, Jayden in 4th and Taryn in Kindergarten Prep at her daycare. Tamia was really nervous to go back since her Mom moved her again. She had to meet new friends, get used to a new school that has different hours and is on a completely different schedule than she is used to. She is also having to wear a uniform now and she isn't too happy about that. Kiarra was super excited to start back this fall. Due to my crazy health stuff, she didn't have the summer we thought she would so she was eager to be around her friends on a daily basis again. Jayden was pretty excited to get back as well but no one was as excited as Taryn. All summer she talked about and asked about going to school. If she wasn't asking it if was time for school to start, she was asking if her birthday was getting closer. She's been planning her party since her party last year!
Tamia and Kiarra are both playing volleyball and they both made the A Team!! Of course they are playing for different schools and will not play each other but we are really proud of them for their hard work and dedication to the game. So far Kiarra has played really well at her games (they are undefeated) and unfortunately we only got to see Tamia play this weekend at a tournament. I have a new respect for parents whose kids live far away.
Jayden is signed up for basketball this winter and he is super excited. He can't stand it that practice doesn't start until after Thanksgiving but he is working on his skills here at the house so he should be good and warmed up by the time they start.
Taryn is still in dance and she loves it. She can't wait for Monday mornings to see her dance teacher and practice with all her friends.
Jeff started his new job September 1st. He is still with AT&T but he moved from being a manager in Installation and Repair to U-Verse. He basically has the same job, just working for a different part of the company and so far he really likes it. He is working for someone that he has worked for in the past and she is a pretty cool manager so I'm sure that helped make the transition a smooth one. He is also closer to the house so that is always good. He had a bowling team set up for this season but a few people fell through so he had to give up the team. He was really bummed about that but this will allow him to watch the girls play volleyball so all is well.
As for me, well I'm just enjoying life. I always thought stay at home Wife/Moms had it sooo easy but I don't think that anymore. I'm almost never home, I'm either running here or there, getting groceries, cooking, cleaning up the kitchen from cooking, picking up/dropping off a kid so my days are just running, running, running!! I feel like I'm never home to get anything done around here. Of course that has nothing to do with meeting friends for coffee or lunch (or both) most days. You'd think the house would be spotless, laundry would be done and beds would be made... HA!!! I think I'm excited to go back to work just to hire my cleaning lady again. I know, that sounds ridiculous but cleaning is not fun for me. The kids are great about keeping their stuff picked up, we have taught them the responsibility of all that, but the deep cleaning is something I don't expect or want them to do so as soon as I have a job offer, my maid service might be the first number I dial! Speaking of work, I am slowly starting to look for a job again. If you know of anything in the Learning and Development field let me know.
We finally got some rain in Katy last week, thank God. Of course it wasn't enough but we'll take all we can get. This has been the hottest, most brutal summer I've experienced in the 13 years I've lived here and I hope to never experience this again. From the heat, to the drought, to the wild fires, it's been the craziest & scariest year...and I'm only referring to TX. This weekend was beautiful with temps in the 80's. We were able to play outside and really enjoy it. We spent hours at Mary Jo Peckham park with our church family this afternoon/evening and it was gorgeous out.
Well family and friends, that's all for tonight. I'm really going to make an effort to update at least every 2 weeks. I think I say that every post but I really mean it this time!

Love to all!!!